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Jet Setter-A Tale of Two Cities

Crazy%20Chicken.jpgSomehow I don't feel like a member of the jet set, but I do feel like both Mary and I have been traveling a lot this year--some of it on pleasure, some of it on business.

I traveled earlier this week to Phoenix for two days to teach a group of bankers about annuities. Yesterday I traveled to Omaha to visit my daughters, granddaughter, and new grandson, Reed Heaton.

The pic is of Abby, doing Chicken Little. Reilly, my six-year old son, also had this costume, but he was better known as the Crazy Chicken. He liked to dress up in the costume, ride his tricycle, make loud chicken noises, and chase the poor dog. Abby is more subdued.

Phoenix

With the three hour time change, that first day seemed interminable. I checked into my hotel, took a nap, drank a glass of wine in the lounge, and settled on a non-descript club sandwich for dinner.

Upstairs in my room I fell asleep watching TV, shortly after sunset in Phoenix.

Of course, I awoke at 3:00 AM Pacific Time. I read for three hours, waiting for the sun to rise. Then I went for a walk. Then I poured down a quart of coffee.

Somehow, I pushed through that day’s six-hour training session, inspired by the energy and enthusiasm of my students. But no sooner was I back in my hotel room, than I fell dead asleep only to wake around dinner time. I was slowly adjusting to west coast time, but felt disoriented and exposed on that treeless desert where Phoenix resides.

I needed the kind of comfort that only a good meal and a bottle of good wine can provide a man of a certain age and disposition.

I found it at a little French restaurant named Vincent’s on Camelback Road.

The appetizer that grabbed my eye expressed comfort on a plate—sweet corn ravioli.

The execution of this simple dish was perfect. The ravioli was hand-made, as evidenced by the irregular sizes of the little packages on the plate. The filling was sweet corn puree combined with mascarpone, ricotta, and parmagiano regiano cheeses. Atop the raviolis was a perfect 1/8 inch dice of seedless, skinless tomato, and a chiffonade of basil.

The white truffle oil that graced the plate took the dish to another level. The glass of Sonoma Coutrer 2003 Chardonnay I washed it down with only helped matters.

The rest of the meal wasn’t bad either, but the incredible late summer flavors of the ravioli on a night away from home and family, in an unfamiliar landscape was just the ticket.

Omaha

I saw Ashley for the first time in over 9 months yesterday. I first glimpsed her seated on the curb outside of the beauty school she's been attending to learn how to be a hair stylist. Her hair was in a style I'd never seen before. She has two new tattoos, rather significant ones on her shoulders, of birds that somehow suggest good luck.

She's clean of drugs, has stopped smoking cigarettes, and is doing well with both her rehab and her school. She finally seems to have her medication right and is more stable than she's been in a long time.

I toured her school with her, then she and I had dinner with CJ and Jessica, played and read to my granddaughter Abby, and took a turn at holding Reed, who's only a few weeks old.

Jessica and CJ are doing well. They are good parent and they work hard to support their little family. I'm proud of them.

As for Omaha, despite all the new building and some spectacularly large new homes out here on the prairie, there is something sad and lonesome about the place. These rolling prairies would prefer to be farmed or hunted. The strip malls are like carbuncles on the landscape. And beneath the seemingly conservative upper middle class comfort, rage seethes. There's a murder a day. There's heavy drug use including Meth, there's tensions between whites, blacks, and newly arrived Hispanics.

The Chili Cook Off scheduled for this weekend can't hide it.

 

 

Posted on Saturday, October 6, 2007 at 06:54AM by Registered CommenterGary in | Comments9 Comments

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I am very glad to hear that Ashley is doing well. Good news. I don't get the tattoo thing, however. I sense that I am in the minority on that issue. At least she is on a better track than she was last fall.

The jet-setter life is not that great, is it? I've done it for years, and it gets tougher each year that I continue. I find myself asking the younger guys if they'd like to take a cool trip -- just so that I don't have to go. I've been flying for over forty years. It is much less elegant now, than when I first started. I'll take Amtrak or driving over flying, whenever I can arrange it.

Back to tattoos. When I was 17 I spent a lot of time around nursing homes, in connection with a part-time job. I saw old men who had tattoos. I guess those tattoos looked impressive once, when the men were young, handsome, and muscular. On old men, they just looked sad and pathetic. I cannot come up with other adjectives -- just sad and pathetic. The old men would try to hide the tattoos, if they could. That was all I needed to know about tattoos.

Bill
October 10, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterBill
Hey Bill--yes Ashley's doing much better. I don't get the tattoo thing either, although from time to time I threaten Mary with a tattoo, my ass, a heart, her name, and and an arrow shot through it.

Pretty scary thought.

As for the Jet Setting--it's more satirical than anything. I'm like you--if I never flew on business again I wouldn't miss it. It used to be cool. Anymore, it's pretty rough.

I'm glad I don't have any tattoos to head as I get older.

GVP
October 10, 2007 | Registered CommenterGary
I guess I'm on the opposite end of the spectrum from a jet setter. Sometimes I'm embarassed by how little I've traveled. I'll leave it up to you and Bill to judge what I've missed. I never felt it was quite as glamorous as it looked.

I am happy to hear that both Ashley and Jessica are doing well. I still have a vivid memory of an afternoon 20+ years ago when we sat in your parents' back yard and watched Jessica and our kids play when you and your family were in Elkhart to visit. That is probably the last time either of us saw the others' kids.

As far as the tatoo thing goes, I'm with you and Bill; don't understand it. You can throw body piercing in along with it. Can you imgine Max Fiandt's comments on either? Maybe he had more of an influence on us than we realize! Scary.
October 12, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterJeff
Jeff--I remember that day! It's amazing how our kids contine to grow up and away and how we just gt old. As for Max Fiandt--I'm pretty sure he wouldn't have had any use for piercings or tattoos.

October 14, 2007 | Registered CommenterGary
I've been thinking about Max. He was cool -- I even thought so when I was 17, which is saying something. He gained my respect without ever being authoritarian or obnoxious.

Tattoos on Max? He could surprise us on that one. I cannot decide. If he had one, few people ever saw it, and I'm sure he was not proud of it. But with him, I can't rule out that he had a rowdy stage in his life. Difficult to know.

Anyone know how to reach him? I'd almost be willing to ask if he has any tattoos!
October 24, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterBill
You know, the truth is, I didn't know Max that well. I was in Dale Kelly's world and spent a lot of time in the gym, as some of you know, What I knew of Max Fiandt was from a distance. Looking back on it, I think that was to my detriment. What I know of him, Max was a principled man. He held a certain line against what he perceived was chaos. I've drifted into chaos a time of two in my life--it's not a pretty thing, so I suspect Max had a point.

As for the tattoos, if Max had them, he'd have reason to be proud of them, yet modest about them.

I don't know where he is either. But it's a tribute to him that we all remember him so clearly after all these years.

I wonder if, and hope that, I'm so well remembered.

October 24, 2007 | Registered CommenterGary
All I remember of Max was his near obsession with dress and grooming, which prompted my comment about tatoos and piercings. It was a different time then, things like long hair, short skirts and not wearing socks were a big deal at CHS in 1969. He had to enforce all of that.

I've sort of lost track of Max, I know that he left Concord to go to Goshen and was a principal there in the '70's. But nothing since. He was definitely an original.
November 16, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterJeff
Max sent me home once for not wearing socks. I borrowed Dennis Gould's VW, and went home to put socks on. My mother was horrified.

While he sent me home, Max did it in a very professional way. He didn't pull the "authoritarian thing" on me, or rant. He basically talked to me, explained his stand, and what I needed to do. After he explained it, there just wasn"t much to say, except, "OK, thanks."

How I wish I had more people like that around me now.
November 30, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterBill
I agree, Bill, He was basically a pretty decent guy. He treated you with respect, if you played by some pretty basic rules. I never got crossways with him. The one time I came close over screwing around in study hall, he sent me to Dale Kelly. He told me to tell Kelly what his star gymnast had been doing. Kelly made me run 15 laps around the gym, stairs and all after practice. He didn't really care if I was a star or not. I think Max saw that one coming.
December 12, 2007 | Registered CommenterGary

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